I've tried to lose my virginity twice now but each time I try, it's always too painful for me so I just stop trying, and its really frustrating for my husband and me as well. Its been a week now that my husband did my traditional marriage, and since then, I've not been able to have sex with him. No matter how much foreplay we have before we try the insertion, I start getting nervous and cant even think about holding ma pain. I really need help on what I can do to make this less stressful for me. I know this really sounds insane but thats just for you to know how desperate I am to get this thing done and dusted before I lose my husband."
